For many survivors of abuse, the most painful betrayal isn’t always the act of harm itself — it’s the silence that surrounds it. The minimising, the denial, the subtle (or not-so-subtle) pressure to move on, to forgive, to keep the family together. Often, that...
(5 minutes reading time) This article was inspired by Ricky Gervais.He said: “I will never stop making my voice heard, because they can’t.” Gervais was talking about animals.And it struck me—This is true of our children too. So many of them couldn’t speak, weren’t...
(5 minutes read time) Abuse is often hidden, not just by the abuser, but by the very people who should protect and support the victim. One of the most insidious ways this happens is through the power of family shame—a silent force that silences victims and protects...
(4 minutes reading time) The real power lies in letting go. When you stop trying to control everything and everyone around you, life opens up in ways you never imagined.Mel Robbins Let them theory Were “Negative Emotions” Safely Expressed? Think back to your...
