The real power lies in letting go. When you stop trying to control everything and everyone around you, life opens up in ways you never imagined.
Mel Robbins Let them theory
Why my approach is different from any you have ever tried: I accept feelings. I see feelings as necessary. Feelings are part of our human infrastructure. They are not bad or negative, they are necessary, crucial in fact, to your well being.
How I work:
Part 1: The Root of Anger
• What anger really is and why we experience it
• How unmet expectations fuel anger
• The illusion of control over others
Part 2: The Three Traps That Keep You Stuck
1. “If they wanted to, if they could, they would.”
• Understanding people’s limitations
• Letting go of resentment when others don’t meet your expectations
• The power of radical acceptance
2. “I can’t make them change.”
• Why trying to change others leads to frustration
• How to shift from control to influence
• Learning to focus on your own growth instead
3. “They are not who I want them to be.”
• The pain of idealising people
• Releasing attachment to who you think they should be
• Embracing people as they are (or letting them go)
Part 3: Moving Beyond Anger
• Practical steps to process and release anger
• The role of boundaries and self-respect
• How “Let Them” leads to peace and freedom