Darkest emotions are needed for survival

Darkest emotions are needed for survival

Book your session “Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves.”― Carl Gustav Jung All Feelings Are for Survival – Even the Ones We’re Ashamed Of We live in a world that often tells us to “be positive,”...
Darkest emotions are needed for survival

Holding on to love: Do you sabotage yourself from moving on?

(5 minutes reading time) When Letting Go Feels Like a Loss: The Hidden Self-Sabotage of Staying Connected Many of us stay loyal to people or systems that once offered us a lifeline — even when those connections now cost us our peace, our truth, and our wellbeing. If...
Darkest emotions are needed for survival

Vital: Is shame your very best friend in the world?

Shame often feels like the enemy, but for many of us — especially those who grew up needing to stay small, safe, or pleasing — shame was actually a kind of protection. It helped you survive situations where being fully yourself might have led to rejection, punishment,...

It’s not funny: ADHD, overwhelm and the split personality

In trauma-informed counseling, it is common to explore how individuals unconsciously split aspects of the self into different “parts” in order to survive overwhelming experiences. This is particularly true in clients with histories of domestic abuse (DA) or Childhood...

Alcohol: Time to stop lying.

Is the world is lying to us? (5 minutes reading time) You Are Not the Problem If you’re in recovery or choosing not to drink, and you feel like the odd one out—you’re not. You’re not damaged, broken, or behind. You’re ahead. You’re awake. You’re doing what healthy...