Marriage: Survival of the fittest

Dec 26, 2024 | Read and Listen

These days, the old ways of doing relationships just don’t work like they used to. Traditional marriage roles—where one person provides and the other keeps things running at home—don’t fit with how life and love work now. People want more than just a partner who ticks...

Anxiety, love and fear of death! – Melanie Klein

Jun 29, 2024 | Read and Listen

(4 minutes reading time) Your Feelings Won’t Kill You – But Ignoring Them Might Hurt Let’s get this straight:Facing your thoughts and feelings won’t kill you.It won’t end the world.But yes—it might be uncomfortable. It might shake your ego. And that’s actually a good...

From wounds to wisdom: Embrace your shadow side

Jun 2, 2024 | Read & Listen

(3 minutes reading time) What if the parts of you that feel hardest to face—your anger, shame, anxiety, or grief—are actually keys to your healing? In Jungian psychology, “the shadow” refers to the hidden parts of ourselves we’ve been taught to reject. These are...

Ever wondered why you are so angry?

May 27, 2024 | Read and Listen

(5 minutes read time) Understanding Anger: The Hidden Emotion Beneath the Fawn Response In my work with hundreds of people across the world, one thing has become incredibly clear: many people are angry—and they don’t even know it. This is often because their anger was...

Resentment, injustice: Can I ever let go?

May 27, 2024 | Read and Listen

(5 minutes read time) The saying “resentment is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die” is often attributed to Nelson Mandela, but its origins are more complex and can be traced back to earlier sources Resentment is a form of...