Jealousy: Survival of the fittest (A mind trick).

I was inspired to write this article after reading a high-rising post from an influencer which said, “I’m raising my girl to never be jealous of other girls.” This could be a great concern for that child. She has to create an ego with Superpowers to deal with that...
Marriage: Survival of the fittest (your mind tells you).

Marriage: Survival of the fittest (your mind tells you).

https://youtube.com/@karenbellcounselling?si=WbdKZTwf5lxLxeeQ Prefer to listen instead? Click on the link. In order to work out who we choose to marry, who we are attracted to, we can look at the dynamics of early years relationships. It’s a factual analysis...
Someone hurt you, no one believed you, now what?

Someone hurt you, no one believed you, now what?

“Everybody lived that way.” ” What makes me so special?” 40s, 50s, 60s, 70s 80s, 90s child? This article explores how those days were accepting of what we now know to be unacceptable behaviour and how family members still use inappropriate...

A child urgently and desperately needs you now!

“I had a good childhood.” “My mother did the best she could.” I’m sure she did. And in addition, you can also be validated. This is very common and it is a block to healing. Going into childhood and feelings, I hear you groan. Every...

Anxiety, love and fear of death! – Melanie Klein

In this article I attempt to help you see that your upbringing is highly likely to have informed how you feel about yourself today. It is impossible for it not to have. I am interested (in the work I do), about just how many people struggle with low self esteem and I...

Relationship: Do you love yourself enough?

This short article is a snippet from a case study, which I hope to provide insight into common beliefs. What do you believe about yourself that you are taking into your relationships? For this example, it was a man and a woman. Where do your beliefs come from? Loving...