Grooming, the truth, keeping silent: What now?

The Unseen Power of Grooming: How Victims of Abuse Often Choose the Only Path They Know When someone is hurt by abuse, they sometimes feel like they have only two choices: keep quiet or live with the pain. Both kids and grown-ups can feel this way because an abuser...

How do you see yourself in the mirror?

“Baby girl, we don’t change. We take the gravel and the shell and we make a pearl. We help other people to change so they can see more kinds of beauty.” Pink. For generations, we have been born into a patriarchal system that dictates what a woman...

Jealousy: Survival of the fittest (A mind trick).

I was inspired to write this article after reading a high-rising post from an influencer which said, “I’m raising my girl to never be jealous of other girls.” This could be a great concern for that child. She has to create an ego with Superpowers to deal with that...

Marriage: Survival of the fittest (your mind tells you).

Prefer to listen instead? Click on the link. We often choose our partners based on needs and feelings we developed when we were very young—often without even knowing it. For example, if a parent left or didn’t give enough attention, we might grow up feeling scared,...
Someone hurt you, no one believed you, now what?

Someone hurt you, no one believed you, now what?

“Everybody lived that way.” ” What makes me so special?” 40s, 50s, 60s, 70s 80s, 90s child? This article explores how those days were accepting of what we now know to be unacceptable behaviour and how family members still use inappropriate...

A child urgently and desperately needs you now!

“I had a good childhood.” “My mother did the best she could.” I’m sure she did. And in addition, you can also be validated. This is very common and it is a block to healing. Going into childhood and feelings, I hear you groan. Every...